This is a posts that I feel like I need to write, whether its for myself or someone else. Its one of those posts you don't ever imagine yourself writing and there's really no way to go about it, so I'm just going to do it.
Some of you may already be aware, most of you probably have no idea. In the past couple of months Wayne and I have found out that our pregnancy and baby are not exactly what we expected. We are both doing really well, but of course there are some hard things that we have to deal with. Our little girl, Kaelyn Ruth, has been diagnosed with Down Syndrome. Along with that she has a pretty serious heart defect that will require surgery when she is around 4-6 months old. She's also really small, we've been told that is typical with babies with Down Syndrome and we've also been told its not...I liked the answer that it was typical, so I'm going with that. We're really excited to get our little girl here, but the medical complications she may or may not have are the scariest part. We've felt so much strength and comfort through the prayers of our loved ones. My testimony has grown so much during this time. I know my Heavenly Father loves his children so much and that he is always with us. I'm grateful for this time that we have to prepare for Kaelyn to get here, I know it will help us get through the tough times.
I'm grateful for the support we have around us. One of the biggest realization that I'm come to in the past few months is that people everywhere are going through some really hard things. Whether they are medical issues, addictions, loss of loved ones, or something else...its all hard. I just wish I would have been more aware of people's sufferings and helped them more. When life seems to be going just as planned, that's an easy thing to forget. I don't ever want to forget, I want to remember so that I can try to support those around me when they are suffering, just like I've been supported so many times. Another thing I've realized is that we can't take anything for granted, especially healthy children. My eyes have been opened to all the children out there that have medical issues, I was just so blind to it before. I wish I would have said more prayers for those children and their families. If I could give anyone any advice, it would be to treasure the health of your children and the health of your family members. It is so fragile.
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Thank you for sharing- I am sure it wasn't easy. You, Wayne, and Kaelyn will be in our thoughts and prayers.
the light that little kids bring into our lives is bright but those with downs are even brighter. Kaelyn couldn't have been placed into a better family where she will recieve all the love and protection she's gonna need as she grows. You're gonna be a great mom. You have the biggest heart. Good luck and you'll be in our prayers too! Congrats on your up and coming sweet little girl! i'm still excited like crazy for you!
-ashley.....yes your old room mate ashley! i know it's been forever!!! lol i found you on Marcy's blog. it's a blog world these days.
We love you and are so excited to meet Kaelyn!!
We love you guys and are excited for when Kaelyn is born and to meet her. Some time we will have to come and see your guys new house. You are in our prayers.
Jeana, you are adorable. You have such a way with words. Thanks for writing that post. I think it's awesome that heavenly father sent you a PERFECT baby! My cousin has down syndrome and he is just full of love! We love him so much, he is a special boy and always makes me happy. Congrats on miss Kaelyn, she's lucky to have a mom with such an awesome testimony!
Jeana, I sure am sorry to hear this. We hope and pray that every thing will go well for you and Wayne and especially Kaelyn. Michelle and I went through some tough things like this early in our marriage with the car accident and then a misscarriage. I know it can be hard and if you ever need to talk to someone who is a million miles away and can't say or do or influense anything but can just listen then please call, you are my cousin and I love you very much. addie.
Jeana you are a great person and because of that god has blessed you by giving you such a blessed little spirit name Kaelyn. I hope that everything goes well and you guys will be in my thoughts.
Hey Jeana we love you so much and the boys can't wait until our cute little cousin Kaelyn arrives. We can't stop finding cute clothes and things for her. She is going to be such a huge blessing and breath of fresh air in our lives. I know there is not better parents out there in the world then you and Wayne for this little girl. She choose you guys for a very good reason. Remember that she wanted to be part of yours and Wayne's family. LOVE YA!!
Dear Wayne and Jeana,
Grandma and I are sitting here reading your blog. Grandma is honored to have little Kaelyn Ruth named after her. Personally, I would say she is tickled pink. We have all been excited to have this little one in our lives.
We have been praying for the three of you and now we know why. Some people get to live with these angels and some of us just get to try and support. The greatest thing I have ever done (except motherhood) is to teach these special angels. We know it's hard to have your dreams take a 180 degree turn, but it will be a wonderful trip. We love you. Auntie Shauna and Grandma Ruth.
Your post made me cry,it's beautiful. With those feelings in your heart you are going to do great.She might not be exactly the baby you were hoping for, but God knows she's the one for you.She will take your breath away and bring you joy you never knew was possible.I have a baby girl with DS,and God knew she was the one for us.Everything will be fine. I know we don't know each other, but we already share something special.You and Kaelyn are in my prayers.
I truly believe that God sends us these precious children to teach us to be more Christ like. I have known several children with Down's quite well and there is NO ONE more Christ-like and innocent! You must be a very special couple to be getting such a wonderful child. I know you will be blessed more than you can imagine! But I'm times will be hard, especially not knowing about her heart. We will be sure to keep you in our prayers.
Jeana,
Ashley referred me to your blog. I know this is a hard, scary thing for you but you are just going to love being her mom! For the record, for the short time we lived together I saw you help many people who were going through hard times,you were never naive to others needs at all. You've always had a wonderful nuturing personality and this sweet little girl could not be coming to a better mom.
Love, Kristen and Jonny Mecham
Thanks for sharing that, I just want you to know that I truly look up to you. Heavenly Father would not place her with anyone, there is a reason she is coming to you and your Family. You are such a great person, and Miss Kaelyn couldn't have a better mom than you! Your family will be in our prayers.
Dear Jeana & Wayne,
I just want you to know what special parents you are going to be to a little perfect angel that will soon be sent to your home. They are ones who love everyone now matter their circumstances. Remember Owen that works @ Union High School? He's the most loving person I know and is always happy when he sees anyone.
You guys are so blessed and lucky to bring Kaelyn into this world. Not may parents have perfect children. We try to teach them all we can so that they can become perfect, but you guys will have a perfect little one living in your home and she will be teaching you.
I can't wait to be a great auntie and hod this special little one in my arms. Thank-you so much for sharing something that would be very hard to express. It has helped strengthen my testimony and I know that little Kaelyn is very lucky to have you guys as parents. You're our thoughts and prayers. If you need anyone to talk to, we are here.
Love Aunt Becky
Jeana, I can't think of a more perfect person than you to have this blessing. Heavenly Father knew exactly who he is sending Kaelyn to and you will be such wonderful mother.
Remember Joshua 1:9.
Love you.
Jeana, what a troubling time you must be going through but I can tell from your post that you are using this time to strengthen your faith and relationship with our Father in Heaven and His Son Jesus Christ. You are right it is easy to forget those that are suffering when times are good but I know Jeana that you are very thoughtful person and have done so much good for many. Our prayers will be with you, Kaelyn is blessed to have you as a mother.
HEY JEANA!! I knew from the moment I found out that you were meant to have such a special spirit in your home because of who you are! I LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH! And I know that you have everything it takes to be the best mom you can possibly be! I can't wait to meet Kaelyn and see the personality she'll get from having you and Wayne as parents! AND I can't wait to have another niece to brag about! ;) LOVE YA
I agree with all the love from your family and friends who posted above. You two are going to be wonderful parents for your little princess! You are in our prayers and we are excited to meet her.
Hey Jeana,
I was so happy to hear that you are expecting! Yeah!!! I agree with everyone else, that your beautiful angel is very blessed to be coming to you. I am so looking forward to meeting her. We too will remember you all in our prayers!! Love ya tons!!
Mandi
P.S. Shallin and I want to throw you a Neola baby shower. So let me know if that would work for you!!
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